Salam kawan-kawan,
hari aku selesai menduduki peperiksaan kerajaan F29, penolong pegawai teknologi maklumat. ramai betul calon-calon yang hadir. merasa diri begitu kerdil.hehehe.
best gak, aku pun tak penah lalui exam gomen ni. dari pukul 9pagi sampai pukul 12 lebih dengan 3 paper. tapi paper akhir "penaasiran personaliti" tu dahsyat soalan nya. sampai 185 soalan.masa lebih kurang sejam kot, aku pun tak ingat.
selalunya exam gomen ni PTD je, jawatan F29 pun ada gak ek examnye. mesti semua calon2 berdebar menanti result yang bakal keluar 3.11.2012 ni kan. Semoga berjaya lah kepada semua calon2 tu. aku pun debar gak nak tunggu result nye.
tapi bak kata ayah, usahlah terlalu mengharap kepada duniawi kerana ianya bersifat sementara. kejarlah akhirat, kerana andai kita mengejar akhirat, dunia akan mengikut kita. so, andai aku berjaya dalam exam ni, aku amatlah bersyukur kepada Allah. tetapi andai sebaliknya berlaku, aku redha dengan ketentuannya. Sesungguhnya Allah lebih mengetahui apa yang terbaik untuk diri kita.
p/s: tapi hati rasa nak la berjaya. cuma pujuk diri, jgn harap sgt.
Saturday, September 29, 2012
Rumahtangga yang terbalik
"Kusangkakan panas sampai ke petang, rupanya hujan di tengah hari". Antara perumpamaan yang boleh di kaitkan dengan rumahtangga yg bermasalah.
Dulu aku pernah terbaca, antara tanda-tanda akhir zaman adalah isteri menyara suami. pendek kata, suami ni malas keje, bini duk bela..... ayat senang paham. tapi aku tak penah la jumpa kes macam ni. slalunya ada kat dalam akhbar je.
Realitinya wujud perkara sebegini..... adala info yg aku dapat...... daripada pengalaman-pengalaman org yg citer pasal ni. ada yg jenis malu untuk bercerai, nanti mnjadi bualan masyarakat tempatan, so dia truskan tanggung suami. ada yang sanggup tanggung suami sampai anak berderet2, sampai bermadu, dia still menanggung perbelanjaan keluarga. wanita ni aku kira memang seorang yang tabah, sabar, cekal hati dan kuat bekerja. aku respect la. bukan senang nak jadi macam tu. tapi di akhirat esok, suami dia taktau, tanggung la dosa sebab tak cari nafkah betul buat keluarga. alangkah bahagia la kalo si isteri meredhai duit dia bagi kat suami. tapi t/jawab suami tu, ha! antara suami dan Allah ta'ala la. jawab la sendiri.
Apa yang aku belaja dalam islam, duit suami merupakan duit isteri, manakala duit isteri, bukan duit suami. suami takde hak nak ambil tau. kecuali isteri bagi je.t/jwb bagi makan, pakai, tmpat tinggal, adalah t/jwb suami. haish!!! macam mana plak sesetengah suami boleh kata, " dah aku bagi isteriku kerja, dia kenala bagi duit kat aku".... aku pikir ini adalah kejahilan suami la....... pandai nak kawin tp bodoh agama......... letih tul!! huh!
Tapi mungkin dunia dah sampai ke penghujungnya la kot, sbb itu la ramai sangat dah rumahtangga dimana isteri yang menyara keluarga, bukan suami nya. Jadi marilah kita kejar akhirat kerana dunia akan mengikut kita....... wallahua'lam.
Dulu aku pernah terbaca, antara tanda-tanda akhir zaman adalah isteri menyara suami. pendek kata, suami ni malas keje, bini duk bela..... ayat senang paham. tapi aku tak penah la jumpa kes macam ni. slalunya ada kat dalam akhbar je.
Realitinya wujud perkara sebegini..... adala info yg aku dapat...... daripada pengalaman-pengalaman org yg citer pasal ni. ada yg jenis malu untuk bercerai, nanti mnjadi bualan masyarakat tempatan, so dia truskan tanggung suami. ada yang sanggup tanggung suami sampai anak berderet2, sampai bermadu, dia still menanggung perbelanjaan keluarga. wanita ni aku kira memang seorang yang tabah, sabar, cekal hati dan kuat bekerja. aku respect la. bukan senang nak jadi macam tu. tapi di akhirat esok, suami dia taktau, tanggung la dosa sebab tak cari nafkah betul buat keluarga. alangkah bahagia la kalo si isteri meredhai duit dia bagi kat suami. tapi t/jawab suami tu, ha! antara suami dan Allah ta'ala la. jawab la sendiri.
Apa yang aku belaja dalam islam, duit suami merupakan duit isteri, manakala duit isteri, bukan duit suami. suami takde hak nak ambil tau. kecuali isteri bagi je.t/jwb bagi makan, pakai, tmpat tinggal, adalah t/jwb suami. haish!!! macam mana plak sesetengah suami boleh kata, " dah aku bagi isteriku kerja, dia kenala bagi duit kat aku".... aku pikir ini adalah kejahilan suami la....... pandai nak kawin tp bodoh agama......... letih tul!! huh!
Tapi mungkin dunia dah sampai ke penghujungnya la kot, sbb itu la ramai sangat dah rumahtangga dimana isteri yang menyara keluarga, bukan suami nya. Jadi marilah kita kejar akhirat kerana dunia akan mengikut kita....... wallahua'lam.
Monday, September 24, 2012
Salam Sejahtera September 2012
Salam semua,
dah lama tak antar post ke blog ni, buzy dgn keje ke sana sini, macam2 masalah melanda, tp cool je..... wat pe nak kecoh2 kan....
relaxkan diri anda dengan zikrullah, ingat pd Allah slalu..... pastu bleh gak g wat window shoping kat shopping complex, tesco ke, the store ke, taiping central ke, giant ke..... yg disebut ni yg ada kat taiping la.... kalo KL lagi byk, cuma dah duk cni kan.... KL tu penuh ngan kesibukan jalan raya.....huhu.... sesekali ke sana leh la... hehehe...
lain dari itu, kita leh gak wat window shoping kat fb, blog, website kan....... kat internet la....kalo brkenan or memerlukan...beli je... senang je, bank in kan duit, pastu kabo la kat penjual online tu..... sesenang ABC........ haaaaa........ apa lagi kawan-kawan sekalian....... jom singgah blog saya yg satu ni => D'lite Collection
dah lama tak antar post ke blog ni, buzy dgn keje ke sana sini, macam2 masalah melanda, tp cool je..... wat pe nak kecoh2 kan....
relaxkan diri anda dengan zikrullah, ingat pd Allah slalu..... pastu bleh gak g wat window shoping kat shopping complex, tesco ke, the store ke, taiping central ke, giant ke..... yg disebut ni yg ada kat taiping la.... kalo KL lagi byk, cuma dah duk cni kan.... KL tu penuh ngan kesibukan jalan raya.....huhu.... sesekali ke sana leh la... hehehe...
lain dari itu, kita leh gak wat window shoping kat fb, blog, website kan....... kat internet la....kalo brkenan or memerlukan...beli je... senang je, bank in kan duit, pastu kabo la kat penjual online tu..... sesenang ABC........ haaaaa........ apa lagi kawan-kawan sekalian....... jom singgah blog saya yg satu ni => D'lite Collection
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...
You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again, whether you drink coffee or not.
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying A word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.
Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see." "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.
Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma the daughter then asked, "What does it mean, Mother?"
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its insides became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life.
If you don't (re)send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day with this message!
May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!!!
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying A word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.
Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see." "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.
Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma the daughter then asked, "What does it mean, Mother?"
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its insides became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life.
If you don't (re)send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day with this message!
May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!!!
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Sukan Bola Kegemaran Ramai
Merata-rata kita dengar pasal bola.sukan bola langsung tak salah, nak main, apa salahnnya kan. bagus untuk kesihatan, sihat tubuh badan buat keje apa2 pun jadi pantas.
tapi, Sukan bola jatuh haram apabila aurat para pemain tidak dijaga, seluar pendek yg menampakkan aurat yakni paha, kadang ternampak yang lebih daripada itu, suara perempuan iaitu penyokongnya yang tidak di jaga, menjerit sampai lupa suara itu aurat. bernimpit-himpit di tempat duduk penonton dengan bercampur lelaki dan perempuannya, sampai lupa batas lelaki dan perempuan Islam yang perlu dijaga.
tepuk dada, tanya iman.
tapi, Sukan bola jatuh haram apabila aurat para pemain tidak dijaga, seluar pendek yg menampakkan aurat yakni paha, kadang ternampak yang lebih daripada itu, suara perempuan iaitu penyokongnya yang tidak di jaga, menjerit sampai lupa suara itu aurat. bernimpit-himpit di tempat duduk penonton dengan bercampur lelaki dan perempuannya, sampai lupa batas lelaki dan perempuan Islam yang perlu dijaga.
tepuk dada, tanya iman.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
40 kesilapan mendidik anak2
Dipetik dari buku '40 kesilapan mendidik anak' oleh Dr. Hassan Ali
1. Pemilihan jodoh tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
2. Perhubungan suami isteri tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
3. Kurang berlemah lembut terhadap anak-anak
4. Memaki hamun sebagai cara menegur kesilapan anak-anak
5. Tidak berusaha mempelbagaikan makanan yang disajikan kepada anak-anak
6. Jarang bersama anak-anak sewaktu mereka sedang makan
7. Melahirkan suasana yang kurang seronok ketika makan
8. Membeza-bezakan kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak
9. Kurang melahirkan kasih sayang
10. Sering mengeluh di hadapan anak-anak
11. Tidak meraikan anak-anak ketika mereka pergi dan pulang dari sekolah
12. Tidak mengenalkan anak-anak dengan konsep keadilan
13. Tidak memberatkan pendidikan agama di kalangan anak-anak
14. Tidak terlibat dengan urusan pelajaran anak-anak
15. Tidak memprogramkan masa rehat dan riadah anak-anak
16. Tidak menggalakkan dan menyediakan suasana suka membaca
17. Mengizinkan anak-anak menjamah makanan dan minuman yang tidak halal
18. Tidak menunjukkan contoh tauladan yang baik di hadapan anak-anak
19. Jarang meluangkan masa untuk bergurau senda dengan anak-anak
20. Terdapat jurang komunikasi di antara ibubapa dengan anak-anak
21. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang betul
22. Suka bertengkar di hadapan anak-anak
23. Sentiasa menunjukkan muka masam di hadapan anak-anak
24. Tidak membimbing anak-anak supaya mematuhi syariat
25. Memberi kebebasan yang berlebihan kepada anak-anak
26. Terlalu mengongkong kebebasan anak-anak
27. Tidak menunaikan janji yang dibuat terhadap anak-anak
28. Tidak menunjukkan minat kepada aktiviti anak-anak
29. Tidak memupuk semangat membaca di kalangan anak-anak
30. Tidak berminat melayan pertanyaan atau kemusykilan anak-anak
31. Tidak memberi perhatian terhadap buah fikiran anak-anak
32. Lambat memberi penghargaan kepada anak-anak
33. Kerap meleteri sesuatu kesilapan yang dilakukan anak-anak
34. Hukuman yang tidak setimpal dengan kesalahan yang dilakukan
35. Sering mengancam dan menakutkan anak-anak
36. Menghukum tanpa menyatakan kesalahan yang dilakukan
37. Tidak konsisten dalam menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas anak-anak
38. Memberi nasihat yang sama kepada anak-anak
39. Tidak tegas mendidik anak-anak
40. Tidak menggalakkan anak-anak hidup bekerjasama
1. Pemilihan jodoh tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
2. Perhubungan suami isteri tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat
3. Kurang berlemah lembut terhadap anak-anak
4. Memaki hamun sebagai cara menegur kesilapan anak-anak
5. Tidak berusaha mempelbagaikan makanan yang disajikan kepada anak-anak
6. Jarang bersama anak-anak sewaktu mereka sedang makan
7. Melahirkan suasana yang kurang seronok ketika makan
8. Membeza-bezakan kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak
9. Kurang melahirkan kasih sayang
10. Sering mengeluh di hadapan anak-anak
11. Tidak meraikan anak-anak ketika mereka pergi dan pulang dari sekolah
12. Tidak mengenalkan anak-anak dengan konsep keadilan
13. Tidak memberatkan pendidikan agama di kalangan anak-anak
14. Tidak terlibat dengan urusan pelajaran anak-anak
15. Tidak memprogramkan masa rehat dan riadah anak-anak
16. Tidak menggalakkan dan menyediakan suasana suka membaca
17. Mengizinkan anak-anak menjamah makanan dan minuman yang tidak halal
18. Tidak menunjukkan contoh tauladan yang baik di hadapan anak-anak
19. Jarang meluangkan masa untuk bergurau senda dengan anak-anak
20. Terdapat jurang komunikasi di antara ibubapa dengan anak-anak
21. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang betul
22. Suka bertengkar di hadapan anak-anak
23. Sentiasa menunjukkan muka masam di hadapan anak-anak
24. Tidak membimbing anak-anak supaya mematuhi syariat
25. Memberi kebebasan yang berlebihan kepada anak-anak
26. Terlalu mengongkong kebebasan anak-anak
27. Tidak menunaikan janji yang dibuat terhadap anak-anak
28. Tidak menunjukkan minat kepada aktiviti anak-anak
29. Tidak memupuk semangat membaca di kalangan anak-anak
30. Tidak berminat melayan pertanyaan atau kemusykilan anak-anak
31. Tidak memberi perhatian terhadap buah fikiran anak-anak
32. Lambat memberi penghargaan kepada anak-anak
33. Kerap meleteri sesuatu kesilapan yang dilakukan anak-anak
34. Hukuman yang tidak setimpal dengan kesalahan yang dilakukan
35. Sering mengancam dan menakutkan anak-anak
36. Menghukum tanpa menyatakan kesalahan yang dilakukan
37. Tidak konsisten dalam menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas anak-anak
38. Memberi nasihat yang sama kepada anak-anak
39. Tidak tegas mendidik anak-anak
40. Tidak menggalakkan anak-anak hidup bekerjasama
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